Admit it. You have come to that point in your life when you know that having a serious young man who will understand your needs, be a great companion and ultimately satisfy you in bed is all you need to relieve the compounded stress and boredom of your normal life.

You have the money. Heck, money is not the problem…except you are scared that it would turn out to be the only thing attracting sugar babies. You don’t want that.  Yes, sugaring involves caring financially for your sugar baby, but you don’t want someone who is after your money and nothing else.

Great choice. Really, sugaring is an interesting lifestyle and an amazing way to cool off. The problem sugar mommas sometimes face is with meeting babies who are money mongers. These babies are after money and money alone. But, there are still sugar babies out there who are honestly looking for sugar mommas with whom they can enjoy a mutually beneficial relationship. How do you find these guys? What are signs that a sugar baby is not selfishly after your wealth and influence?

Look out for the following traits in your potential sugar baby…

1. He is ambitious and looking for a long term relationship

9 out of 10 Sugar babies who are looking forward to date long term aren’t about the money. They understand that it takes more than greed to maintain a long term relationship. This kind of sugar babies would be seeking for ways to make you happy rather than how to suck you dry.

2. He is courageous

Your ideal sugar baby shouldn’t be one who is ashamed of introducing you to his family and friends. Real sugar babies are happy about their lifestyle and thus have nothing to hide. Don’t be around a sugar baby who wants to keep the relationship secret, unless he has a good reason for that.

3. He is honest

Always try to observe this trait right from the first time you meet. You might run into troubles dating a sugar baby who is not trustworthy, therefore, be on the look for this vital quality.

4. He appreciates youLove and respect are the hallmarks of a good relationship. You want to be around a sugar baby who always commends your looks, respects your choices, loves to be around you and so on. When you find this kind of sugar baby, you are sure going to enjoy your life, so don’t settle for less. Search diligently – and with patience – till you find your perfect match.